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What social skills you need to succeed?
So many people feel empty and oppressed because they’re afraid to start.
Everyone has the ability to open up and speak up. But as a society, we stop ourselves before we even open our mouths. On the other hand people will not stop talking if you don’t speak up. Start talking. Don’t play the silent game.
What are some other techniques you can use to enhance your communication skills? Here are a few ideas:
Learn a new conversation technique
Don’t jump in with a question. Instead, make a statement and wait for a reply.
Some things to look for when using a statement technique are:
- Using positive language.
- Avoiding negativity.
- Explaining your point and explaining why the statement applies.
Practice questioning, the way Einstein does
You shouldn’t try to change someone’s mind right away. Rather, ask them a question that gets to the heart of their concerns or belief.
Ask, “What do you believe?” They might have a different answer, or even disagree with you.